Life is more than meets the eye.
Love is more…
You are more...
Others are more...
Life, love, others and you are more complex than your interpretation, your perspective and understanding of each. Each of these are constantly changing at the micro and macro level and as a result none of these are static. Oftentimes we hinder our experiences with each of these because of the finite limitations we place on them. We are quick to give up or place each of these in a box, reducing them to limiting, polarizing extremes (good|bad, love|hate, yes|no, positive|negative, lover|enemy, etc.). There is more to each of these than you know.
Step back and view each of these from a different perspective.
Step to the left and right and view each of these from that angle.
What would an aerial (elevated mind/heart space) view reveal?
It is quite possible the very experiences you have been praying, waiting, dreaming and longing for are buried deep within a ‘box’ the place where you placed them many moons ago because they did not fit or subscribe to your limited definition. – Misha N. Granado