An indicator that you are operating from a healthy self love space is when you stop engaging in behaviors you KNOW are not for your highest good. For example:

📱 Why do you still continue to text/call someone who has either said or continues to demonstrate he is not interested in you?

🕛 Why do you continue to spend #quality time with him when you are not interested in him #romantically?

🔜 Why do you continue to make plans with someone who consistently does not follow through?

💋 Why do you continue to share an intimate space with him when you know you want more than he can or is willing to offer?

It is not until YOU stop breaking your own heart will it begin to heal. Your words and behavior must be aligned in order for love to move in your life. Clean up the space, my love. Spring cleaning does not only occur in March. Expending time and energy in spaces not for your highest good only delays your evolution.