As humans, our physical sight is limited, however, our spiritual insight has the ability to ‘tap into’ the greater space and ‘see’ many things (vision) before these experiences manifest on the physical plane. Love also has this ability (on a much broader scale) to view the entire trajectory of our lives. Unfortunately, as humans we rely so heavily on our limited physical sight and use it to make decisions because we erroneously believe our only options are those that we can physically see with our naked eye. This is why many people remain in unhealthy spaces (relationships, jobs, environments, etc.) or are unable to let go of an individual, behavior, thought or pattern. We believe that ‘this’ is our ONLY path to happiness and our best life.

Your best life and big love is not tied to someone who does not choose you. Love does not require you to remain stagnant, to beg, chase, and/or compromise your mental, physical, emotional or spiritual body.

Now, fear…fear is the real trickster/prankster. Fear constricts your highest and best self and uses your unhealed wounds to paint a picture of scarcity and lack. Love does not operate with such tactics. Love is not a trickster or a prankster. Love expands your highest and best self.

You cannot force love.
You cannot trick love.
You cannot manipulate love.
You cannot fast track love.
You cannot capture love and hold it hostage.

Love comes willingly.
Love knows exactly where you are.
Love does not forget.
Love never loses its way home (and you are a home for love).
Love does not adhere to manmade time.
Love requires light energy to thrive (fear is heavy and repels love).

One of the most sustainable and fastest ways to attract love is to identify and remove all of the barriers that stand between you and love.

Oftentimes these are emotional wounds, many of which were obtained during childhood and some have been passed on through the generations. Whether you are in a romantic relationship or not, take the time to go within. Do you have blockages? If so, begin to do the work. There are many tools to assist along your journey to heal. Some may utilize a therapist (Love Grows is available), mentor, coach, spiritual guidance, reiki/chakra cleaning, meditation, connection to nature, yoga or any other means in which to identify and remove your muck. Be gentle with yourself and your fellow travelers.

Everyone and I mean absolutely everyone who has and will appear on your path has a divine purpose for being there as do you when you appear on the path of another. We are all teachers and students, learning and teaching simultaneously. Each relationship (regardless of the duration) is an opportunity to learn more about self, life, love and God. Love makes us better. – Misha N. Granado