Sometimes our relationships become mundane, filled with the routine of work, children, bills, being tired, etc. With the demands of family and career it is quite easy to become disconnected at the ‘sexy, lover, intriguing, friend, and fun’ level from your partner.

One way to reconnect with your partner is to observe him/her in their element doing something they love and/or where they demonstrate excellence.

What is your partner passionate about?
Is he an artist?
Is she an athlete?
Dynamic story teller?
Excellent mechanic?
Savvy venture capitalist/business person?
Photographer?
A chef?
A physician, attorney, teacher?
Where does your love shine?

Take a few moments to observe him/her doing what they do best. By viewing your love in their element you witness characteristics, skills, qualities and strengths that may not manifest when they are engaged in parent mode or the routine of life.

It is extremely attractive, intriguing and a turn on to witness someone in their element.

Do you and your love need a boost to reconnect as lovers? Observe each other in their element and rediscover why you two selected each other and decided to grow love together. © - Misha N. Granado, MPH, MS