“I am sure your wife thinks you are a prize. However, you are doing a very poor job representing your coveted ‘WE’ space. Would you have approached me, initiated this conversation, asked for my number or extended the lunch invite if your wife were here? Sir, you represent her everywhere you go. You are to represent your marriage, every moment in every situation. Do better. Be better. Be the prize she thinks you are.” And with that I turned around and walked away.
Sex will not keep a man nor are monogamous, committed, healthy relationships filled with love built on a foundation of sex, regardless of the number of sexual tricks you turn or the intensity of the orgasm he has with you.
Oftentimes during the initial stages of romantic love, a great amount of concerted time and effort is allocated to each other which may include long phone conversations, many texts during the day and multiple dates throughout the week. It is as if there are not enough hours in the day to soak in all of the ‘wonderful-ness’ from the source of your adoration.
You no longer want to battle, fight or hurt another because you are very protective and selective in how you expend your energy. Egos like to battle, love never does. Become love.
Emotional cancer is so detrimental and toxic because there are infinite ways others unknowingly ‘feed’ the cancer. For example, if you are a woman who did not grow up with her biological father, you may have developed an emotional wound of ‘I Am Not Good Enough’ cancer. Unbeknownst to you, somewhere along the way during your childhood you made the association that if you were good enough your dad would have remained and played an active role in your life.
