The Women: Mothers & Daughters

At Love Grows one of our largest relationship dynamics is the Mother-Daughter relationship.

 

Daughters, 

Your mom is a woman who dreams, has fears, trying to figure out life, made mistakes, has regrets, has experienced heart ache, feels pain, at times did not/does not feel pretty, was rejected, did not use her voice, spoke up for herself, feels disappointment, etc. Once you realize this, and see her as a woman NOT just YOUR mother, the quality of your relationship will change. This is where you will enter into an adult relationship with your mom.

 

Mothers, 

Your daughter is a woman who dreams, has fears, trying to figure out life, made mistakes, has regrets, has experienced heart ache, feels pain, at times did not/does not feel pretty, was rejected, did not use her voice, spoke up for herself, feels disappointment, etc. Once you realize this, and see her as a woman NOT just YOUR child, the quality of your relationship will change. This is where you will enter into an adult relationship with your daughter.

 

We accept daughters as young as 12 years old. How is the relationship with your mom/daughter? We are here to help. Contact LoveGrows@MishaNGranado.com to schedule your sessions.

 

I Grow. You Grow. Love Grows!

- Misha N. Granado, MPH, MS

When Reconnection is Possible

As long as we open, life will present various ways to reconnect with different aspects of ourselves in the form of love, friendships, relationships, hobbies, interests, etc.

Emotional wounds can sever relationships , however IF both parties are willing and courageous to be honest, accountable, do their individual work to heal their muck, own their role in the quality and outcome of the relationship and be vulnerable; a reconnection is possible.

As for me, I am grateful to The Arts...

The Art of Forgiveness
The Art of Patience
The Art of Compassion
The Art of Love

For within my life, I have been the recipient of each and practice them as well. I intimately know the magical way love moves and I am grateful.

Is there a relationship in need of repair in your life? Is your muck serving as a barrier, hindering love to move? Life is a beautiful gift, but one with an unknown expiration date for each of us.

Are you REALLY okay with the quality of the relationships in your life? If the 'gift of life' were to expire for Person X, would you be at peace with where you two stand today? If so, good for you 💖. If not, do not take time for granted. Tomorrow is not guaranteed. This is why removing residual wounds are imperative, it frees up space for love. Misha N. Granado, MPH, MS

The Gift of December

Beginnings are magical.

Although I may experience a little nervousness with them, I have come to welcome them. Beginnings are like a blank canvas or an empty house awaiting my personal touch, style, flair, and energy. I feel renewed and excited by these spaces and believe absolutely any and everything of the highest good is possible even and especially within our relationships.

We have entered the last month of 2017

• how is your heart?
• How are your relationships?
• Your marriage?
• Engagement?
• Friendships?
• Relationship with your parents? Children?
• How are your professional relationships?
• Communication and conflict resolution styles?
• How is your sex life and the various intimacy components of your relationship?
• And what about you, love…how is your relationship with yourself?

I am excited and grateful for December 1, 2017 a day none of us have experienced nor will we experience again. I am excited to have the opportunity to help grow, nurture and cultivate love in your life. You do not have to do it alone. You do not have to go into 2018 (or even next week) with the quality of your relationships being less than what it can be. Are you ready? The last month of 2017 is the perfect time to begin. Let’s grow love! – Misha N. Granado, MPH, MS 

Patience: Do Not Dig Up Your Harvest Before the Season

Do Not Disturb Your Seeds. A pregnant woman does not obtain ultrasounds daily to check on her baby. A farmer does not dig up his seeds to ensure the root system is being established. The level of irreversible damage is increased with both. The same is true for the manifestation of our dreams and best life.

Sometimes we become nervous when our 'seeds' do not sprout according to our timetable. We may begin to panic or allow fear to convince us it will not happen and we need to do something else. Are you experiencing this now?

💥 Step back.

💥 Breathe.

💥 Breathe again.

This 'seed' was planted in YOU because YOU are the one who is meant to 'birth' it. Seeds establish their intricate root system,  grounding itself and connecting to the water supply it will need to nourish and sustain it when it shoots upwards towards the sun.

This is also the time when you are to strengthen your faith and belief in love, knowing what you planted was good and will yield an amazing harvest. You do not need to disturb the seeds, instead continue to prepare the space (mind, by removing muck) for the arrival. Continue to live in love and when it's time, similar to a baby, your dream will manifest.

❤ Stay the course.

❤ Speak to it.

❤ Love it.

❤ Be excited for its arrival. .

This is your dream, it will  not look like anyone else's. The sooner you accept and #embrace this, the sooner you will be able to nurture this space properly. -Misha N Granado, MPH, MS

The Benefits of Emotional Healing

Emotional Maturity and healing does NOT mean you will always feel happy and full of joy 100% of the time. Instead, it means:

1. You will have new tools and perspectives to navigate your adventure which is life
2. Your emotional wisdom becomes deeper because you know EVERYONE, absolutely everyone is dealing, healing and/or growing from something (or needs to).
3. You become gentle with others especially yourself.
4. You know age, status, educational degrees, bank accounts, marital/child status does NOT correlate with emotional maturity and/or healing; instead it is something that can happen anytime during one’s life and space.
5. You know your parents are not exempt from #4.
6. You know your spouse is not exempt from #4.
7. You know your children are not exempt from #4.
8. You intimately know the healing power and liberation of forgiveness.
9. You learn and continue to perfect the Art of #Grace.

It’s a journey.

Everyone is on one, although it looks different.

Keeping people ‘emotionally incarcerated’ in your mind requires you to stand guard in that emotional prison.

• Love heals.
• Love Grows.
• May you allow love to bloom fully in your heart and mind.

We are accepting new clients (and previous ones as well). You do not need to wait until the new year to begin. Contact LoveGrows@MishaNGranado.com to schedule your sessions. You are worth the investment. – Misha N. Granado, MPH, MS