Creating Your Happy

July 26, 2016 Misha Granado

“Do not let familiarity be your only reason for staying in a space (relationship, career, geographical location, weight, etc)”. Changing your course is always an option, take a chance and begin a new adventure; the unknown does not have to be daunti… — “Do not let familiarity be your only reason for staying in a space (relationship, career, geographical location, weight, etc)”. Changing your course is always an option, take a chance and begin a new adventure; the unknown does not have to be daunting. Remember your current ‘familiarity’ was once an unknown.

Lighten your load by no longer dragging/pulling or holding onto people who no longer have a sincere desire to experience life with you. It is not personal, no need to become emotional, instead respect and honor their decision to live their ‘best’ life which may not include you.

Build-A-Bear NOT Build-A-Spouse

July 26, 2016 Misha Granado

I am not interested in changing or fixing anyone, nor will I enter into a space with someone who belives I need fixing or need to change. Instead, the ideal space is when both parties are adored for who they are and both can be their authentic selves.

Ebb & Flow: The Life Love Edition

June 28, 2016 Misha Granado

To try to force a relationship with someone whose words, behaviors and or actions convey they no longer want to be with you, is one of the worst and most painful forms of self sabotage.

Love: Wrap Yourself in it

June 3, 2016 Misha Granado

If ‘like attracts like’ then ‘love attracts love.’ Spend time in the presence of #love. Regardless of your marital status, spend more time with people who exude love.

You WILL Have to work for it!

May 20, 2016 Misha Granado

You cannot push, pull, drag or carry anyone towards or away from anything. Instead, sustainable change only occurs when one's motivation is internal.

You may desire a loved one to engage in a certain behavior (exercise, nutrition, financial responsibility, etc) or to stop something that is no longer serving their highest good (I.e. smoking, unhealthy relationships, pessimism, etc) but no matter how much you want this for him/her IF they have not made 'this' a priority then sustainable change will not occur.

One of the most difficult things to do is accept that EVERYONE is on their own journey (even your loved ones) and it is not your responsibility to save them. Instead, all you can do is continue to become the best version of you which may serve as an example. When and if they are ready to make a change they will begin the work and follow up with you...THIS is when and where your efforts will be effective because THEIR commitment is internal. -Misha N Granado