If you are emotionally unhealthy, you will attract and be attracted to a very different person than when you are emotionally healthy. When you are emotionally healthy your interests, desires, energy and tolerance are very different.
Oftentimes during the initial stages of romantic love, a great amount of concerted time and effort is allocated to each other which may include long phone conversations, many texts during the day and multiple dates throughout the week. It is as if there are not enough hours in the day to soak in all of the ‘wonderful-ness’ from the source of your adoration.
You no longer want to battle, fight or hurt another because you are very protective and selective in how you expend your energy. Egos like to battle, love never does. Become love.
Emotional cancer is so detrimental and toxic because there are infinite ways others unknowingly ‘feed’ the cancer. For example, if you are a woman who did not grow up with her biological father, you may have developed an emotional wound of ‘I Am Not Good Enough’ cancer. Unbeknownst to you, somewhere along the way during your childhood you made the association that if you were good enough your dad would have remained and played an active role in your life.
Once you have experienced this love or know with all of your being it exists, you cannot settle for anything less; your spirit will not allow it. Fear cannot convince you. The panic of your loved ones cannot coerce you.
