“I am sure your wife thinks you are a prize. However, you are doing a very poor job representing your coveted ‘WE’ space. Would you have approached me, initiated this conversation, asked for my number or extended the lunch invite if your wife were here? Sir, you represent her everywhere you go. You are to represent your marriage, every moment in every situation. Do better. Be better. Be the prize she thinks you are.” And with that I turned around and walked away.
If you are emotionally unhealthy, you will attract and be attracted to a very different person than when you are emotionally healthy. When you are emotionally healthy your interests, desires, energy and tolerance are very different.
Oftentimes during the initial stages of romantic love, a great amount of concerted time and effort is allocated to each other which may include long phone conversations, many texts during the day and multiple dates throughout the week. It is as if there are not enough hours in the day to soak in all of the ‘wonderful-ness’ from the source of your adoration.
Once you have experienced this love or know with all of your being it exists, you cannot settle for anything less; your spirit will not allow it. Fear cannot convince you. The panic of your loved ones cannot coerce you.
