Tip 6 of 8: Lessons
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Tip 5 of 8: Surround Yourself with Love
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It is easy to lose sight of the big picture and who we are in the mist of these type of emotional storms and even easier to get swept into the tumultuous tornado of heartache. This is what social media does not show. Your friends, associates and loved ones rarely post pictures, live videos and posts about these moments in their lives.
Read moreTip 4 of 8: Internal Dialogue
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Oftentimes when we ‘perceive’ the external world as crumbling around us, we sometimes have the tendency to turn on ourselves. We begin to have unkind, unloving, harsh conversations in our heads. In essence we turn against ourselves becoming our own enemy.
Read more8 Love Grows Tips to Create a Healthy Me Space After a Relationship Ends: Tip #1 - Therapy
Your loved ones mean well, but do they have the tools, expertise, skills or knowledge YOU need at this time in your life? Their coping strategies may not work for you, be sustainable, healthy or appropriate.
Read moreMore Than One Way
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There is more than one path to fulfill the desires of your heart and your life purpose. Therefore when one door (i.e. relationship, job, mentor, opportunity) does not open or closes later down the path, do not fret; instead shift your perspective and begin to:
View each route as an adventure
Become curious and creative to discover how to transform this unexpected outcome into a springboard to catapult you into your next adventure.
This is one of the most beautiful aspects about love and life, no one entity is responsible or the sole source of the resources you need for your journey. Therefore, one person’s ‘No’ is not a dead end but instead a detour and your adventure continues. – Misha N. Granado, MPH, MS