Take a moment to reflect on your historical markers, those past experiences where you thought ‘IT’ was the absolute worst, you could and would not make it through, yet you are here. This is proof you CAN heal ‘this’ space and come out on the other side stronger, wiser, more courageous with a deeper appreciation of self.
It is easy to lose sight of the big picture and who we are in the mist of these type of emotional storms and even easier to get swept into the tumultuous tornado of heartache. This is what social media does not show. Your friends, associates and loved ones rarely post pictures, live videos and posts about these moments in their lives.
Oftentimes when we ‘perceive’ the external world as crumbling around us, we sometimes have the tendency to turn on ourselves. We begin to have unkind, unloving, harsh conversations in our heads. In essence we turn against ourselves becoming our own enemy.
If someone no longer wants to be with you, accept it. He or she is not your source for love, happiness, joy, etc. Another person is fully capable, willing and desires to co-create a beautiful new love story with you. But FIRST you must properly heal this space, do not sabotage your future love space with baggage from your past.