Are you going to continue to give authority to fear to serve as the pilot of your life, forcing you to go or remain only in the spaces and places where it feels comfortable? Are you REALLY okay with allowing fear to bully you and convince you that you are less than who you know you are destined to be?
“I am sure your wife thinks you are a prize. However, you are doing a very poor job representing your coveted ‘WE’ space. Would you have approached me, initiated this conversation, asked for my number or extended the lunch invite if your wife were here? Sir, you represent her everywhere you go. You are to represent your marriage, every moment in every situation. Do better. Be better. Be the prize she thinks you are.” And with that I turned around and walked away.
If you are emotionally unhealthy, you will attract and be attracted to a very different person than when you are emotionally healthy. When you are emotionally healthy your interests, desires, energy and tolerance are very different.
Oftentimes during the initial stages of romantic love, a great amount of concerted time and effort is allocated to each other which may include long phone conversations, many texts during the day and multiple dates throughout the week. It is as if there are not enough hours in the day to soak in all of the ‘wonderful-ness’ from the source of your adoration.
